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How to create the things you really want in life

If you're reading this, I'm pretty sure it's because you're ambitious and you want to create things in your life.

Whether it be a business, more money, a dream relationship, more fulfilment - my guess is that's you've got things that you're working towards right now. 

So I'm going to share with you a bit about how I create those things in my life and how I help others to do the same. 

Part of the work that me and my clients do is create what we call 'declarations' or 'new truths', which are statements that correspond with the things we want to achieve or the life we would really love to have. 

For example, perhaps someone wants to be in a long term relationship, or they want to create a successful business, or they want to create financial freedom, or whatever it may be. 

I tell my client to write declarations that presupposes that what they really want has already happened, such as:

‘I am in a loving relationship with a great partner’

‘I am a successful business owner’

‘I am financially free’

But when my clients' are creating their declarations, they often they ask me, ‘how can I create a declaration that blatantly isn’t true yet?’

At first they might find it difficult to really believe these statements because in 'real life', they haven’t physically and tangibly become true yet. 

But here’s why I get them to do it anyway:


You’re not going to change anything in your life by constantly speaking about things the way they are. 

In order to create a new reality, you have speak something that is counter to how reality currently is. 


When I ask my clients to believe in the declarations they create, I’m not just asking them to see physical, tangible evidence for it out in the real world, I’m asking them to create the internal experience of things being that way, which can happen regardless of what’s going on in the world. 

I’m sure you may have experienced times either with yourself or with others, where reality doesn’t match ones internal experience. 

For example, you can have someone with loads of money who feels poor, or someone who is amazing at performing in public and yet feels they did a terrible show, or someone who is doing really well at work and yet feels that they are no good. 

You can create an internal experience of life being a certain way regardless of what evidence tells you. 

And you can use this to your advantage. 

By creating a positive internal experience of the person you want to be and the life you want to live, you will start to distort reality and create the new reality that you want. 

But you aren’t going to do that if you’re constantly reporting on how things are right now. 

How many times do you sit and complain about things the way they are?

How often do you tell your friends that you’re tired of being single?

How often do you tell people ‘I just am this way’?

How often do you say ‘I’m just not that type of person’

How often do you speak about your reality the way that it currently is - and yet all the while hoping and wishing for it to change?

Instead, try speaking about the reality that you WANT to create, and watch as it starts to unfold. 

This is what I like to call, 'being a magician'. 

Magicians use the phrase ‘abracadabra’, which means ‘I create as I speak’. 

Recently I’ve being creating my own internal experience of ‘being a magician’, and feeling the power I have to create any reality I want. And it’s been working. 

Literally, the things that I’ve been wanting to create for so long, are magically appearing in my life. Like new clients, more money, men I'm interested in dating, more friends, and most importantly, the person I want to be is showing up too.  

The same is happening with the clients that I’m working with who are going through the same process. 

They too are creating their own new clients, more money, more confidence, more time spent on what they love, the business of their dreams, the home life they desire, and so on. 

Would you like to join us? 

Of course, my coaching isn't just about creating declarations, it's also about tackling whatever obstacles are in the way of having you believe and manifest those declarations to be true.

So if you want to start creating the life you want and the person you want to be, just click here to contact me and request a trial session.

With love and magic,

Aimee x

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